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WHEN THE MELODY OF TENDERNESS FADES AWAY!

  • Writer: Fouad Qamar
    Fouad Qamar
  • Jun 30, 2025
  • 5 min read

When the once enchanting melody of tenderness fades away, it leaves a haunting symphony of emptiness and longing. It is a heart-wrenching composition that unfolds on the grand stage of life, where the divine hand meticulously penned the script. It's not merely the end of a sweet piece of poetry; it's a poignant elegy for that cherished heartbeat, the benevolent soul, the dearest confidante, and the unwavering ally, the mother. 


Oh, Allah! As the tender melody evaporates, I witness one of the celestial gates of paradise gently closing. I bring back memories of my beloved mother, her ideals of generosity and love, and she artfully crafted our narrative from infancy. Her devotion, maturing with each passing day, weaves the tapestry of my heart with fragments of her essence. Her tender caress becomes a lullaby that ushers me into the sweet embrace of sleep, and I awaken to the warmth of her smiles. Her face is a sunrise that paints the canvas of my existence. In this tangible reality, no pillow compares to the softness of her bosom. This haven provides me solace and unparalleled security. I miss it as long as my soul has not yet travelled.


My mother's Layla words, dripping with wisdom, kindness, and encouragement, are more profound than any other. Her voice composes sonnets as sweet as the gentle breeze that whispers to my soul. None rival her in tenderness, compassion, mercy, patience, and sacrifice. She embodies grace and strength, a divine blessing in my mortal life that I often ignore!


Blame me not when the volcano of sorrow erupts on the day tenderness takes its last breath. Within every man, regardless of the years amassed, lingers a child with an innocent soul whose world shatters when tenderness dies. I aged instantly, as if time were an illusion, leaving a void that even the vastness of eternity cannot fill.

Even though death is a natural course, I am a human being with a broken heart. O Lord, be my Helper! Be the soothing balm for my wounded soul.


In my mourning, I weep, tears flowing like tributaries of sorrow for the Eden lost. I cower in the shadows, the echoes of my Layla melody voice lingering inside me. My mother was the terrestrial paradise stolen from me by the hand of death. Yet, she guides me to the paradise that awaits me in the afterlife. Her words echo in my ears, an elixir fuelling my zeal for righteousness, a compass driving me through the stormy seas of life. She, my mother, is the most extraordinary book I have ever read, each page a revelation, each chapter a lesson, the most erudite professor from whom I graduated. Mothers! Their hearts are masterpieces and wonders in the creation gallery; each beat a brushstroke, painting the masterpiece of our existence.


Praise Allah for the orchard of contentment, for the gifts of faith, certainty, and patience. Praise the Creator of Death SWT for the fortitude coursing through my veins, absorbing the pangs of pain and sorrow. The heart grieves, and tears cascade from my eyes, a waterfall of emotions; my tongue fails, and my soul speaks the language of sadness. I say only what pleases our Lord, finding solace in my submission and satisfaction with Allah's fate and destiny. The parting saddens me, for we are Allah's creation, and unto Him, I shall return.

Losing a loved one, especially the compass of our lives, our mother, is an abyssal experience etched deep into our souls. Mothers, the architects of our emotional landscapes, fill our hearts with a love that knows no bounds. Their presence is a sanctuary, a refuge where solace and comfort are found, a harbour where storms cease to exist.


When a mother departs, our identity fragments, leaving an unfathomable void. This cosmic emptiness echoes with her laughter, advice, and love. The pain is all-encompassing, and grief is an ever-present companion. This shadow walks beside us through the corridors of time. Longing for her embrace, pearls of wisdom and boundless love become a visceral ache, an echo reverberating through the chambers of our hearts. Shared memories become treasures, cherished and clung to like precious jewels.


In this turbulent sea of emotions, grief, sadness, anger, and confusion collide as we navigate the chasm of loss, a labyrinth of emotions where every step is a journey through the echoes of the past. Permitting ourselves the grace to feel and express these emotions becomes a vital step in the healing process, a cathartic release that washes away the layers of sorrow. Each journey through grief is as unique as a fingerprint, a personal odyssey through the realms of loss, and granting ourselves the time and space to mend is imperative.

Yet, in the shadow of this profound loss lies an opportunity to reflect on the blessings bestowed by our mothers. The lessons they imparted, the values instilled, and the love showered upon us become beacons to guide us forward, a celestial constellation illuminating the path of our destiny. Honouring their memory involves embodying the virtues they exemplified, and we are becoming living tributes to the legacy they left behind, a legacy written in the hearts of those they touched.


Faith can be a balsam in the realm of loss. Offering solace and comfort, a celestial elixir that heals the soul's wounds. Belief in a higher power, the merciful might of Allah SWT, provides meaning and purpose in the face of adversity. It whispers hope, assuring us that our loved ones have found peace and reunion with the Creator. This divine homecoming transcends the limitations of mortal existence. 


As we navigate this labyrinth of grief, the support of others becomes an anchor. This lifeline keeps us afloat in the stormy seas of sorrow. Family, friends, and community provide strength and understanding, forming a tapestry of human connection that weaves through the fabric of our grief. Sharing our vulnerabilities with those who've tread similar paths becomes a transformative act of healing, a communal embrace that soothes the aching soul.


Ultimately, the loss of a mother serves as a stark reminder of life's fragility. It encourages us to value and appreciate our loved ones., and express gratitude. At the same time, they walk beside us and live our lives in homage to their memory. Though the pain lingers, we find solace in the love and memories, carrying the spirit of our mothers as we forge ahead on our journey through life, a journey where the echoes of her love and prayers resonate in every step we take. A journey that is a testament to the enduring power, enormous and expansive of a mother's love.

 
 
 

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